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Buy merch if you can. 

If you can’t, make it. The band you are watching is, more often than not, barely covering gas money; merch sales are how many touring bands survive, despite being the reason people walked through the door. That said, not everyone has money for a shirt. If you still want to show support, grab some paint and a black tee and make something yourself. Get creative. This applies beyond clothing, too! Zines, patches, and other DIY items all count.

Be loud.

If you still have your voice at the end of the night, the show didn’t count.

Wear earplugs.

Without ear protection (I use Loops, but I just got it like that), certain equipment can produce frequencies that not only damage your hearing but can also muddy the sound. Earplugs reduce that distortion and often make the music sound clearer.

Learn pit etiquette.

Always remember: if the pit scares you, do not stand near it. There is no obligation to participate, and protecting your body is more important than proving anything. Everyone experiences shows differently, and there is no single “right” way to enjoy live music.

If there is a bar at the venue, tip the bartender.

Even if you don’t drink. It is a kind thing to do, and when venues host all-ages shows, bartenders often miss out on the money they would make from a 21+ crowd. Even a $1 tip helps venues justify booking more all-ages shows, which ultimately benefits bands and fans alike.

Talk to people. 

If you can work up the courage, even a simple compliment can turn into a friendship. The people you meet at shows are often some of the most interesting, funny, and kind individuals you will encounter. You just have to start the dialogue. Parking lots and set breaks are the best moments for this. (This includes the band; they aren’t above you just because they’re on stage)

I hope this is able to help you feel a bit more comfortable! Move at the pace you’re comfortable with, be kind, and you’ll have a blast!